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Everyday Superheroes: Hippo Saves Baby Animals

By Aja Uranga-Foster, Certified Holistic Lifestyle Coach

Every day there are people and animals who perform simple but profound acts that help others. They are everyday superheroes, and their uplifting stories make our days brighter. 

This is an older story from 2010, but I just learned about it today: News 24 in Cape Town, South Africa reported on a local hippo caught on video as it saved a baby wildebeest from drowning as its herd crossed a river. And 5 minutes later, the hippo saved the day again, this time rescuing a tiny zebra foal from being drowned in the river current.

Hippos spend their days swimming in rivers to search for plants to eat, socializing with their family groups, and defending their young. But this unnamed hippo took time out of its day to care for other creatures for no apparent reason or reward. This small act was not difficult for the hippo to do, but it made a big difference to the lives of the wildebeest and zebra. Every kind act we do matters. 

Thank you to all the everyday superheroes, everywhere around the world! 

Read full news report here:
http://www.news24.com/SciTech/News/Hippo-saves-wildebeest-zebra-babies-20101203

"Aloha Ke Akua" Music Video

Song by Nahko Bear (Medicine for the People)
Title: "Aloha Ke Akua"

Lyrics:

Lend your ears, lend your hands,
Lend your movement, anything you can.
Come to teach, come to be taught.
Come in the likeness in the image of God.
Cause, you can be like that.
With all that humbleness, and all that respect.


All of the power invested in me,
be it hard to love my enemies.
All of the black bags over the heads of the dead and dying.


The more I understand about the human race,
the less I comprehend about our purpose and place
and maybe if there was a clearer line
the curiosity would satisfy.


Time based prophecies that kept me from living,
in the moment I am struggling
to trust the divinity of all the gods
and what the hell they have planned for us.


I cry for the creatures who get left behind
but everything will change in a blink of an eye
and if you wish to survive,
you will find the guide inside.


I go back and forth every single day,
the clarity that comes to me in a choppy way,
as the feelings and the places
and the seasons change,
the galaxies remain.


Energy fields cone the body in space.
The angels that are coming from a spiritual waste.
The hate that gets me distant from my spiritual pace.
Ten fold the manna when the planets are in place, in polar alignment.
We're on assignment.
Bodies on consignment.
Return them to the circus.


And what is the purpose?
What is the purpose and would you believe it?
Would you believe it
if you knew what you were for
and how you became so informed?


Bodies of info performing such miracles.
I am a miracle made up of particles
and in this existence,
I'll stay persistent,
and I'll make a difference
and I will have lived it.


Aloha, Aloha Ke Akua, Ke Akua,
Aloha, Aloha, Kuleana, Kuleana.
Aloha, Aloha Ke Akua, Ke Akua,
Aloha, Aloha, Kuleana, Kuleana.


Each day that I wake,
I will praise, I will praise.
Each day that I wake,
I give thanks, I give thanks.
Each day that I wake,
I will praise, I will praise.
Each day that I wake,
I give thanks, I give thanks.


And the day that I don't wake up
and transcend the holy make-up,
I am capable, I am powerful.
And the day that I don't wake up
and transcend the holy makeup,
I am on my way to a different place....


I'm not a leader, just a creature,
seeking the features of a teacher.
Whether you follow or whether you lead
All mysterious ways of nature and I'm into it.
Changing management.


And there are various ways to conquer this monotonous metropolis,
my stubbornness is bottomless,
my fearlessness is talking shit
and I'm wide awake and I'm taking names.


I am not a leader, just a creature.
Seeking the features of a teacher.
Whether you follow or whether you lead
All mysterious ways of nature and I'm into it.
I'm into it.
Changing management.


And there are various ways to conquer this monotonous metropolis,
my stubbornness is bottomless,
my fearlessness is talking shit
and I am wide awake.
And I'm taking names.


And there are various ways to conquer this monotonous metropolis,
my stubbornness is bottomless,
my fearlessness is talking shit,
and I'm wide awake and I'm taking names.


Do you speak to me like you speak to God?
All of the love and understanding between the father and the son?
Do you believe in the perfectness of where you are?
These are my people, these are my children,
this is the land that I would fight for.


My solidarity is telling me to patiently
be moving the musical medicine around the planet in a hurry,
Cuz there's no time to waste.
Got to wake up the people time to stand up and say,
we know what we are for
and how we became so informed.
Bodies of info, performing such miracles.
I am a miracle, made up of particles
and in this existence,
I'll stay persistent
and I'll make a difference
and I will have lived it. ........


Aloha, Aloha Ke Akua, Ke Akua,
Aloha, Aloha, Kuleana, Kuleana.
Aloha, Aloha Ke Akua, Ke Akua,
Aloha, Aloha, Kuleana, Kuleana.


Each day that I wake,
I will praise, I will praise.
Each day that I wake,
I give thanks, I give thanks.
Each day that I wake,
I will praise, I will praise.
Each day that I wake,
I give thanks, I give thanks.


And the day that I don't wake up
and transcend the holy make-up,
I am capable, Hm that's right,
I am powerful.
And the day that I don't wake up and transcend the holy make-up,
I am on my way to a different place!


Aloha, Aloha Ke Akua, Ke Akua,
Aloha, Aloha, Kuleana, Kuleana.
Aloha, Aloha Ke Akua, Ke Akua,
Aloha, Aloha, Kuleana, Kuleana.

Authentically Synthetic

By Aja Uranga-Foster, Certified Holistic Lifestyle Coach & Wellness Specialist

"She's so fake," "He's such a poser," etc. What does it mean when people make these accusations? As humans, part of the way that we bond with one another is by feeling connections through similar interests. These interests can be a sport, a cause or charity effort, having children at the same school, etc. And underlying these interests that bring us together, there is a need for authenticity of the other person's intentions in order for them to be accepted by others. For instance, if two people are participating together in a book club, it is typically off-putting if one person dislikes reading. The obvious question becomes, "Why are they here?" If a person is doing something but doesn't actually enjoy it, their intention is perceived as being insincere, or fake.

Another form of being fake is when a person puts great effort into covering up who they are, or otherwise attempts to replace who they are-- physically, emotionally, mentally-- with a substitution. If a person is not naturally inclined to be a certain way, it is important to consider why they are trying to force or train themselves to be that way. For instance, a teenager who dreams of becoming a basketball star. Is the child equipped with skill at the game and athleticism? Does the child enjoy playing? These are acceptable as natural inclinations to be on a basketball team. But what if the child is not equipped with skill, athleticism, and joy of the game? Everyone has to start somewhere, and many people do not start with any of these things in the beginning. These things can develop over time when work is put into practice. Another example is an adult who dreams of becoming a politician. They may start going to events at City Hall or networking with local politicians. And in the beginning, same as the child trying to become a basketball star, they will look awkward and out of place. But if their intention is genuine, they are not "posers" or fakes. They are simply in training to become a new self. Their intention is key to how others will perceive them. And their intention is key to their ultimate success, along with focus and hard work.

Every one of us is a fabrication. Who you are is a creation, a mixture of natural born talent, predisposition, desire, and intention. All of us have put in effort from childhood to learn how to be who we are today. We learn manners, and choose to accept, reject, or alter them. We practice different talents, and become experts in many of them as we use them in our workplaces and hobbies throughout life. Becoming who we are is a life-long effort. Each day we become better at some things, choose to drop our efforts on other things, and move into the new version of ourselves. The fabric of who you are is dynamic and is a blend of natural fibers of your inner being blended with synthetic pieces of who you are becoming day by day. 

As the synthetic threads are woven in, we must be careful not to lose the breathable, durable, natural fibers all together. There is nothing wrong with being partly synthetic, since this is part of the process of becoming yourself. But we must strive to maintain our own personal, perfect blend of synthetic and natural fibers, in the way that is most authentic to our inner being and needs. 

As the saying goes, "Haters are gonna hate." So when we embark on any new activity, there will be critics, there will be people who misjudge your intention, and there will be people who are not compassionate to the fact that you are still learning. Outside feedback can be helpful to a degree, but often it can just feel negative. Instead of focusing on the outer feedback, keeping in touch with our inner world is how we truly find whether we are on the right track. This is how we determine for ourselves whether the synthetic blend we are made of today is our own perfect balance of natural and "man-made." Is your intention genuine? Are you honestly being real, or fake? Are your intentions constructive, or destructive?

How do we keep in touch with our inner world, the truth within ourselves? It is accomplished through maintaining a healthy lifestyle and supportive wellness practices such as healthy eating, physical activity, regular quiet time for reflection or prayer, and enjoying social time with friends and family. 

Sometimes life knocks us out of balance, and it seems impossible to get in touch with our inner truth. Perhaps your "fabric blend" has accidentally become overly synthetic, and like polyester fabric prevents your skin from breathing, it is preventing your soul from breathing. 

It is ok to feel overwhelmed or unsure where to turn. If you need a helping hand to get on track with your wellness and your inner truth, Mighty Mind & Body is here to help you. Call us today at (916) 800-3866.

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Fun AND Healthy: Peaceful Party Planning

From the Mighty Newsletter July/Aug 2013

By Aja Uranga-Foster, Certified Holistic Lifestyle Coach

Summer is here, and that means lots of fun events such as outdoor weddings, family reunions, and BBQ get-togethers. Planning these events can be stressful. But with a plan and active delegating, the emphasis will be on fun times from start to finish. Here are some tips to infuse peace and joy into party planning:

1) Healthy daily habits. As a party planner, it is important that you can focus on your tasks, which means being able to focus on things besides how tired or hungry you are. This means having healthy habits months before your event or party happens. Consistent, deep sleep is a foundation of good health, followed by healthy eating for your body's fuel during the day, and daily movement and stretching to keep your body ready for activity. 

• Sleep needs vary for individuals, but the average is 7-9 hours per night of restful sleep. Falling asleep around 10pm as often as possible is ideal for restorative or "beauty" sleep (between 11pm and 2am).

• Healthy eating means not feeling deprived or over-full during the day. This means having balanced snacks and meals that include protein and healthy fats to provide satiety and slow-burning fuel. Also having colorful, fresh produce and healthy grains throughout the day will give you the healthy carbs your body needs for bursts of energy. Talk to your doctor or dietitian about healthy micro-nutrient supplements to fill in any gaps in your diet.

• Exercise has been proven to relieve stress. And what other stress reliever out there also has the beneficial effect of causing you to become more physically fit? None that we've heard about! Even a quick 10-minute walk outside can do wonders to ease the mind and emotions. Burn calories and tone the body while "burning off" stress!

2) Daily quiet time. Sitting quietly by yourself (turn off your phone, computer speakers, and the radio) and allowing your mind to be clear for 10 minutes each day has been proven in research studies to lower stress levels and improve your mood overall. And if you have been trained in a specific meditation technique, today is the day to get back in the habit. Even if you have no formal training, having quiet time with eyes closed and focusing on your breath can have a profound effect to improve your day. Here is a helpful video about this daily technique by mindfulness expert Andy Puddicombe on TED Talks:

Andy Puddicombe: All it takes is 10 mindful minutes

  

3) Ask for help. Planning a large gathering all by yourself can be overwhelming. It is ok to ask others to help you! Friends and family are often available to volunteer-- as the saying goes, many hands make for light work. And paid vendors are an option if you have a budget available. The key is to delegate responsibly clearly and precisely, and to keep a level head if some details don't work out perfectly. (There will always be some snags, and that's ok!) Here's how: 

• a) Email is great to get everything in writing in the weeks or months before the event, and follow up with a brief conversation about the task with each helper. Make sure your helpers have enough time to complete their task(s), and make sure they are aware of their deadlines. 
• b) Check in at regular intervals (every few weeks or as necessary) with each helper and confirm whether they are on task. Don't get angry if they fall through-- ask them if they have any recommendations for someone else who can take the task and move on quickly!
• c) Don't over-focus on how any particular task is done by your helpers-- especially volunteer helpers. Instead, focus on the fact it is getting done, and you don't have to do it yourself! 

4) Focus on the fun! Many people get swept up in the stress of planning an event, and then don't even enjoy the event! If you are a professional party planner, it is your job to oversee the event rather than enjoy the party. But if you are an event host for family and friends, your guests are there to have fun with YOU, not without you. If you feel stress beginning to overwhelm you, just think about why you are hosting the gathering to begin with! Is it to celebrate a friend's wedding? Is it to celebrate 4th of July? Remember, the decorations not being perfect, the sound system breaking, or any other detail is secondary to the point of your special gathering-- to enjoy each other's company and have fun!   

Need help with healthier habits, mindfulness, or stress-relief? Contact Mighty today! 

(916) 800-3866 or info@MightyMindBody.com

Keeping the Body's "Toolbox" Full

By Aja Uranga-Foster, Certified Holistic Lifestyle Coach


Does your body have a complete "tool box" to repair wear-and-tear and fix urgent problems? Micro-nutrients are the "tools" in your body's "toolbox" for repairing damage and wear-and-tear. 

Think of your body as a house, and the micro-nutrients are the essential tools to fix things. If there is a leaky pipe in your "house," you run to the garage to get a wrench out of the tool box. If the wrench isn't there, then the floor may get soaked and damaged! Mold, replacement floor boards, and other problems can happen because of the un-repaired leak. So it goes without saying that having a complete set of "tools" in your "toolbox" is essential! 

Natural foods packed with micro-nutrients are one way the body fills its "tool box." Micro-nutrients include vitamins, amino acids, antioxidants, and enzymes. While proteins such as meat and dairy are important for many healthy body types, the main food source for micro-nutrients are plants such as fruits, vegetables, and legumes (beans). 

But in today's busy lifestyle, it is often difficult to get the best fresh natural foods for your body at every meal. This is why having a complete micro-nutrient supplement is important to help you maintain your long-term wellness goals. 

After a long search for a great supplement, Mighty Mind & Body has teamed up with Thrive: Educate Train & Inspire. Thrive created a convenient and delicious supplement, Thrive Complete, to help you reach your wellness goals and keep your "toolbox" full. It is packed with the goodness of natural greens complex, vital amino acids, vitamins, and minerals essential for optimum mind and body performance.
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As part of a healthy diet, the Thrive Complete supplement is a great way to ensure you meet your daily needs for micro nutrients, which are essential for maintaining a balanced mind and body.  How do micro nutrients help the mind too? Your mind is part of your body, and your mood and thoughts are affected by what "tools" are available in your "toolbox," too!

For more information and to purchase the Thrive Complete supplement, please click here.

Purpose-Made Creatures

By Aja Uranga-Foster, Certified Holistic Lifestyle Coach

As friends of mine know, my fiance and I are "parents" to a chameleon named Mingus Panqueques, a.k.a. "Mingi". A chameleon is not to be confused with an iguana, which many who meet him often do. Mingi is a veiled chameleon, bred and born in a sanctuary in Los Angeles. His species is from the middle east region of the world, and he is naturally suited to warm, humid weather. As chameleons are known for, his body color and shape changes with his mood-- he is literally like a living, shape-shifting mood ring. He is a reptile, sheds his skin, and eats various bugs and the occasional plant. He is smart, responsive, and adaptable. And he is adorable in his own little reptilian way.

While I do love to brag about my "baby," that is not why I am writing this blog post. I am writing it to introduce you to him so that he can be a vehicle for learning. Just from hanging around Mingus for a few minutes, everyone who meets him says the same things: "He is so cool!"  "Look at how he climbs...how his eyes move around... how he shoots his tongue out to eat!" 

To me, all these comments point to how amazingly adapted he is to his purpose. His purpose of climbing in trees, of looking all around for bugs to eat (and look out for predators), and of grabbing these bugs quickly from far away. He is a marvel of specialization with his fused toes, his sling-shot tongue, and his bubble-eyes that swivel independently. Even his brain is specially adapted to have two independent parts, one part can sleep while the other processes information and looks out for predators. Amazing!

Check out these photos of him, and then please view more of the article below.

 Mingus on the windowsill. He expands his body into 
a pancake shape to absorb the sun's rays.

Mingus at my desk

Mingus in his "playtime" tree

Mingus (and all chameleons) looks and acts so differently than us humans, and even differently from other animals many people ever encounter. 

Another thing people always say about him is, "He looks like a little alien!" This alien nature is a gift because it makes us stop for a moment, stare at him, and realize how special and amazing living beings are. 

Every one of us are specialized and made for a specific purpose. His is climbing trees and eating quick-moving bugs. 

Question: What is your specialized purpose?

Mingus can't talk-- he has no voicebox. He occasionally makes small hissing sounds to get our attention or express his distaste about having to go back in his terrarium after playtime. But other than his small and occasional hisses, all we can do is watch how he communicates through movements. Watching how purposefully he climbs his branches, how perfectly he aims and fires his elastic tongue at bugs, how he looks at us with his swivel eyes. The gift he gives us is a visual representation of his purpose.

Us humans do not always seem to be as purpose-made as Mingus is. Yes, we do see athletes who are clearly born with natural physical and mental traits that drive them to excel in the purpose of their sport. 

And there are people with certain other obvious skills equipping them for their purpose. Some examples are people with wonderful social skills (such as public relations managers, special event managers), imitation skills (such as comedians, actors), coordination and decisiveness (such as surgeons, construction workers), or compassion and multi-tasking (parents, crisis outreach workers). 

Question: What are your specialized skills?

Ponder these two questions above for yourself: 1) What is your specialized purpose, 2) What are your specialized skills? 

Do the answers come easily? For many people, no. Many people have multiple purposes throughout their life, which can sometimes make things even more confusing. 

But guess what-- just because a person may not be as obviously purpose-made as a creature like Mingus, doesn't mean they are purpose-less. We are all here to fulfill a specific niche. The bug-eating tree-climbing reptile niche is occupied by our friend pictured above. But there are a LOT of other niches looking for the special creatures to fill them. 

Start finding your niche. Try this exercise:

1) List 12 things you have special knowledge and/or training about.

2) Talk to trusted friends, co-workers, or your lifestyle coach about things you are good at. Let them list 12 things, then compare together with your list. Look for overlaps.

3) Research opportunities, network with people you know in your newly-identified niche, practice visualization techniques, and focus on affirmation exercises.

4) If you need help, contact Mighty for a free consultation! (916) 800-3866, info@MightyMindBody.com